hi! i'm not looking for an elegant clutch, just an evening bag for dinner/movie. (i need something in the brown fam.) im starting to like the brown damier and was eyeing the speedy 25. its such an iconic shape and i've never owned one. all of my bags can be put over the shoulder. so this would be something very new to me! do you think speedy's are just for daytime? and, is the 25 too big of a bag for this purpose? thanks for your help!