I know this might sound stupid, but I'm not sure if us curvy girls can do the whole belt- over-clothes look. Where you live do you see curvy girls doing this? Do you need to have a small bust/flat stomach for this to look good? Also - should short-waisted people avoid this look? I'm having trouble finding clothes that are flattering as I have a true hourglass figure -bust and hips measure the same and waist is about 10 inches smaller. Recently lost weight and am trying to step up my style game. Thanks for your help!