Consider a girl with lots of gentleman callers. Let's say she sleeps with some of them of her own accord, for her own personal pleasure. She enjoys this lifestyle, and she doesn't allow herself to be "used" for sex. In fact, in the majority of her relationships, she is in control and less emotionally involved than her partners. She has no desire for a long-term relationship, at least not at the moment. Is she a player or a slut? I'd like to say she's a player, because screw the double standard. If this were a guy we were talking about, his friends would be giving him high-fives. Then again, I feel like most people would label her a slut just for being promiscuous. What do you guys think?