How did you keep your single GFs after you got married? My life changed so dramatically afterwards that maintaining friendships has been like pushing a rock uphill! A big rock, a big hill! I love them all still, but they don't seem to understand new homes, lifestyles, families, etc... I try not to let my life intrude on what is still special to them... making long trips for birthdays, holidays, even the occasional night out. But very few seem willing to slow down to my new pace - a dinner at home with us and a few people probably not being as exciting for them as a night at the bar, club, event, etc. What did you do? These gals are important to me, but I don't know how to do any more, and I'm not sure what I'm doing is enough. Help!!