ok for those who have the Carly bag, are you totally in LOVE with it?? I loved it when I first saw it online. Then I went to the store to try it on and it kept falling off my shoulder. I thought of getting it then cutting off the fat part of the handle so it would be skinnier but am scared to do this. Also I am TOTALLY ANAL about having a matching wallet. So what wallet did you guys get to match. Oh and I don't want black, any color but black. Please post pics too, would love to see what you have.