I'm looking to upgrade into a larger home. I found 2 that I like but I need some advice about toddlers (mine's 19 months) with pools and/or stair cases? Do you all have them around your kids, would you wait to upgrade if you had to move to a home with a staircase or pool for child safety reasons? Any opinions much appreciated. This is my first child and I'm very worried about making the right choice for him as well as my hubby and I.