thank you for saying this.
a month or so ago, I sold a bag to this buyer who seemed to have been leading a very sheltered life. when I mentioned to her I would list the bag at the full value she paid for when ship the bag, she didn't respond right away but seemed to caught up after a few more email exchange. so I told her I could declare it at 100 dollars BUT if it was lost, i'd keep the money and refund her 100 dollars. she didn't say nothing. so I had the worst scenario in mind, I declared the full value she paid for. and when it arrived, she moaned to me that she had to pay custom. I repeated again what I said in the previous email to her...bc of some foreign exchange thing, I lost 100 buck already. I asked her to use pp gift option but she decided to use western union....oy...I don't know what to say. I felt bad for her but I wasn't going to pay for her mindlessness....