i'm a bit of an eBay and paypal newbie, only done one transaction each way so far :weird:. Anyways, was wondering whether this is ok/safe... there's this seller on eBay, reputable and everything, and who's trying to sell her bag, she's relisted it for the 2nd time already, but so far no1's bidded on it (yet), i really really really want that bag, but the price is still a bit high for me.. so here's the question: should i send her a msg and let her know if no1 has bidded at the end of the auction, if she's willing to lower the price, i would buy it by paypal outside of eBay? is that even safe? ush: feeling pretty clueless...!! TIA everyone!!