So I am kind of new here and am learning some great things from you guys. You are all honestly so nice and supportive of each other, it makes my buying habits seem justified! So, I am young (22) and kind of new to the game of buying designer stuff when it is not OMGBRANDNEW and from random, different places where building a relationship with a SA isn't really needed. I hear a lot of you girls have relationships with SA's at places like NM and Nordstrom and Barney's. How does one go about finding a SA at a store that you can trust and who will call you for sales or who you can call and find out information? I want to buy bags and I want to assure my SA that I will buy, but I obviously want to buy on the sale prices (pre-sales, etc.) So how do I cultivate a relationship prior to actually purchasing? Or is this silly? And also, when you guys post pre-sale merchandise and SA contacts from stores around the country, does this mean if you call (and they charge your credit card) they will ship it to you if you are nowhere near that store? I am just trying to look for clarifcation on some of the stuff you guys talk about. Thanks so much. I'm already honestly learning SO much and it's so fun on here!