Boyfriends/Husbands and Strip Clubs

#47
Actually, my bf doesnt feel comfortable going, but I think it is ok on the rare occasion... I don't think my bf even goes yearly, just if someone reaaallly wants to go for a birthday and I'm sure we'll face this with upcoming bachelor parties, but that rare occasion I'm ok with. Now... if he wanted to do that for his bachelor party before we got married I'd be mad though, not sure why, but I would be!
 
#48
hardLVcore! said:
After living in LA and Tokyo, I have no problem with strippers, clubs or lapdances. I was a manager for years and still have alot of friends in the "industry". Most of the girls I worked with are now married, paid for their education, ect. Sure there are the sad stories as well, but most of the people I know we're smart and had a goal, not a habit. I still continue to go to clubs, usually in mixed company, batchelor parties these days are guy and girl, which makes it more fun for both. Instead of wondering what the other party is up too. You should always judge the person, I sure wouldn't want a lying, cheating guy, but not every patron is like that. My hubby isn't a cheating scumbag just because he is in a club, it is how he behaves in there that counts. Anybody who wants to cheat, will, and usually does it more discreetly, not in a public place. I love a good club, music, atmo, and most people are just there to have fun!
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I completely agree with everything you said especially - Anybody who wants to cheat, will, and usually does it more discreetly, not in a public place.
 
#49
The only strip club my BF "goes" to is when we were watching The Sopranos, LOL! He's been to them before, but not recently...I wouldn't have a problem with it occasionally, but every weekend...no way. Now if it was a bachelor party or a mixed group of us going then that is no big deal for a one-off event.

he DOES subscribe to Playboy and I'm cool with that...hey, the guy knows I'm the REAL thing and where his bread is buttered!!
 
#50
Well funny thing is Vlad has never been to one, but I have :graucho: I don't care if Vlad were to go to one, as long as I were there. I think it would be a fun experience with both of us there together... but I am totally against it for a bachelor party. That makes absolutely NO sense to me!!!!
 
#51
When I was younger I was DEADSET against my boyfriends going to strip clubs. Now that I'm older and been married for a while to a man I trust and feel secure with- I wouldn't mind if he went-- occasionally. That said- still I would prefer to be with him :shame:
 
#52
pink_bai2bi said:
What are your opinions on your guy going to strip clubs?

A couple of girlfriends and I were having this conversation last night and it was split. I had one friend who is totally against it and one who doesn't mind at all that her boyfriend goes almost every weekend and is totally open about it.

I am completely against boyfriends/husbands going to strip clubs and find it very unattractive when guys go to such places:yucky: . Thank god my boyfriend doesn't step foot cause I'd split in a heartbeat. Of course this is our relationship case only...

What's everyone else's opinions on their boyfriend/husband and strip clubs?
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B/f has been with friends, its not his scene. He asked if i minded that he go with the guys and i said no, go and have fun.I trust him 200%, In fact said he was bored. He's never been back.

Since we have been together I havent been and i'm sure if i was going with the gals he'd be ok with it.

Now if my ex was to say he was going with friends i would have snapped like a twig. Totally different type of person, and i wouldnt be comfy with it.
 
#53
Baggaholic said:
I don't mind if my husband goes to strip clubs, I go to strip clubs all the time with my girlfriends, it's clean fun!

The thing is you have to be secure of yourself! I once offered a stripper $500 to try to give my husband an erection! "can I say that here" :lol:
He told me they don't do anything for him and that he would prove it! I took him up on the test and felt kinda silly. She tried ALMOST everything and didn't succeed! It was a great laugh and I gave her a fifty so not to make her feel bad, she told me in my ear "your husband really loves you and it seems there's only one woman that can turn him on, your very lucky" Then when she left my husband told me I can move so much better than her. Needless to say I was the only woman to give my husband an erection that night!

See if it would have been me I wouldn't have passed that test, shhhh, ... don't tell my husband!


I find every woman has a diferent outlook to this. If your husband or boyfreind goes to strip clubs every day or every weekend this would be a problem and it would be something to sit down and talk about. A bachlor party you can't get mad for at. Every guy deserves to get drunk outta his mind and have some clean fun, you just have to know that at the end of the night he's comming home to you.

No decent man would actually date a stripper because they know what lot of them do and wouldn't be comfortable living with that in his mind.
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Sounds like something i'd do with my b/f.. :roflmfao: and the same thing would happen, she'd end up with 50$
 
#54
I think that at the beginning of my relationship, I didn't care as much. My bf would go once in a blue moon, on a special occasion. Only a few times. Once, he was so drunk, I even picked him up from one, and went inside to get him. Now, four plus years later, I don't like the idea of him going at all. I don't know why I'm less tolerant now.
 
#56
I don't mind my SO going to the strip club AS LONG AS I go WITH him and that only I am allowed a lap dance (I do that to frustrate him - yeah I'm mean). But then again, I'm probably different because I also read his Playboy and Maxim; and now that he's oversea, I get to read his subscriptions for free.

However, if we're getting married, then I do not want strippers at his bachelor's party unless I'm also there; and the ONLY person who is allowed to do the touching is ME ...
 
#57
My husband does not go to strip clubs, but I HAVE to tell you...a few years ago my MIL hired a stripper as a surprise for his birthday! Sadly, I was sitting next to him when she showed up, so I got just as much of the "show" as he did, and it was pretty gross. She was...ahem...not very attractive. And she "posed" as a cop, so she came in with some crap about his car being identified as one used in a robbery. Well, I am a lawyer, so this did NOT go over well until I realized what was going on. The whole thing was in really bad taste...especially when we found out his MOTHER had arranged it. Even now we are afraid to go to birthday parties anywhere NEAR her house!
 
#58
D & G rockstar said:
The only men that a stripper will date is someone who is going to pay up... buy them this and that... I think the men who date strippers are just as skanky as the strippers... LMAO
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Holy ****!! Does that mean we shouldn't get married and have kids? They might grow up to be SKANKY too? :lol: I know more chicks looking for a free ride that don't dance, most girls dance because they like their independance and pay their own way. My best friend paid for her mother who had Alzhimer's till she died and many others supported family and friends. Don't be so quick to judge people you know nothing about.:flowers:
 
#59
I wouldn't have a problem if I did have a boyfriend that did this - but hopefully I would find someone that would be practical enough to just get free porn from the internet ! :graucho:

Oh my coworker once got kicked in the head by a stripper, by accident ! He was really drunk at the time and he woke up the next day with a triangle mark on his forehead !
 
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