I'm typically not a fan of stiffer shinier leathers as I'm afraid they will scratch easily. For moderate wear and occasional travel, is a box calf Birkin or Kelly in a darker color highly impractical? I rely on you Hermes experts Is the box calf soft to the touch, as in not feeling like glazed cardboard? (What a way to put it but..hopefully you know what I mean) Is Togo heavier than Box? On an older (wellll over 40) but young at heart woman would a calf Birkin look...old lady-ish? That is: too conservative as opposed to textured? I didn't see anything specifically addressing this in the Hermes threads. Thanks!