Ok, not chilling anymore. Found small black bows in another country, but I compared the item number I got, RT0365, and it seems to be the medium bow! So I think that all the people I have been talking to today might have talked about the medium one, unaware of that there is an even smaller one... Crap! 
Does anyone have the item number for the small bow?
Does anyone have the item number for the small bow?
And unfortunetly I will be unhelpful this time because I have no idea what the style number is for the small bow. I suggest you to ask CINDYYZ! She has the small bow that she's currently selling on eBay. Maybe she can provide you with the #?