For all of you bolide lovers, do you prefer the rigid leather or a soft leather? for quick reference, if you could please tell me which leather your bolide is in and if it is soft or stiff. I think the softer leather seems like it would be more comfortable to get in and out of, but the stiff leather would keep the shape of the bag better. Which do you have, use, like? and why? I love the bolide and plan on getting one over the next year or so but want to think about it to death first. tia.