I can convince myself that any color is neutral if I want it enough! Is BI too "flashy"? I look at everyone's beautiful collections and I vow to buy only colors because they're so fun and different and then I vow to buy only neutrals because they're so sensible and versatile.... If I am planning get a City - and I have a black and a caramel first - should I be investing in something more neutral like gray, a brown, even black? or go for it?