I recently changed my mind on my future J12 from black to white. My best friend talked me out of black saying it was too masculine looking. Do you agree? I'm asking specifically about the bracelet or leather watchbands - not the face. It is such a major purchase that I want to be 100% positive on my choice. It might be one of those ?'s - the more people you ask - the more different opinions you get. Some ask me what color do I wear more of and some say that black is a lot dressier. What do you fashionistas on this forum think? It doesn't have to be limited to j12 but on any black watch. TIA!