I want to solicit honest opinions of this wallet. IRL it is pitch black; these photos were taken outdoors in natural light. Does the leather look too distressed, giving it the feel of a man's wallet? I purchased via charge-send and wasn't able to compare two side by side. I have the CC tote in blue but couldn't find the blue wallet. What's interesting is my tote is made in Italy and the wallet in France, and the leather on the wallet is softer than the tote. Thoughts?