sorry to keep you ladies waiting!
i decided to go with the bordeaux blake since it got the majority of the votes, and my mom said it looked the best with my suit and dark brown peacoat. you know what they say...mother knows best!
everything went wonderfully. the 3 funeral directors i met today were great, and super laid back. i got to ride shotty in a BEAUTIFUL cadillac hearse to the cemetery; we had a jewish burial this morning - which was a first for me. after leaving the cemetery, we went to white castle, in the hearse. i kid you not
i had so much fun and i cannot wait to go back - ive definitely found my "niche"!!
and thanks for everyones input!