Hi you guys! I need help . I just receive today my MJ kislock Stam in black from NAP. It is gorgeous but heavy. I have had experience with heavy handbags because i own 05 Chloe paddington. But to be honest i said another heavy bag ...Also i said wow too eccentric- it will take a while since i get used to it! I also bought a dark brown spy recently which i am IN LOVE WITH. Not heavy at all and extremely stylish and lately i start lushing the aubergine paddy which is more my style. Well decision time 1. Keep MJ and buy aubergine metallic Paddy in Paris that i will go a trip to before Christmas 2. Return MJ and use the money to get another Spy(color style suggestions?) 3. Return MJ and get instantly the metallic paddy and get a Chanel black bag(i will decide there the style) in Paris 4.any other suggestions? I know it is very confusing.What is your opinion?Thank you in advance!