I have a collection of belts with big heavy buckles (vintage,cameo, ornament,etc.). They are the ones that sometimes cut into you when you sit down. I wear jean and t-shirts mostly when the weather gets cooler in the fall. Are these belts not the style anymore? Do they still show tuck-in shirts with jeans? I saw a great skinny reversible Tory Burch belt in a catalogue but it looked dressy. What works for "casual"?