I'm from Singapore and it's a shame a lot of people don't want to ship to Asia. I made my first eBay purchase recently - a lovely Bottega Veneta bag that cost over USD1,000 and the seller sent it via USPS even though my address could not be confirmed cos it's a SG credit card. How about getting the issuing bank's phone no. and calling the bank to verify the card? That's if the buyer's prepared to divulge her card details.