What would you recommend as the best everyday tote? I have been considering the Grand Shopping Tote, the Cloudy Bundle ( now that I've seen Swanky), Petite Shopping Tote, and the Luxe Tote. Does anyone have any ideas or recommendations. As a mom, I find that a lot of times I want to just throw their stuff in my bag so I don't have so much to carry. Also durability is a factor.