I searched previous posts and none fit my specific needs so I hope you ladies can help me. I am wearing a high-waisted pencil skirt(black halo) this weekend and after my second baby things are not as they once were. It will also be my "puffy" time of the month.:shame: I am looking for the best body shaper to help me with the puffiness that happens once a month and to help me look a little more toned/smooth. But enable me to breath, any past experience? Thoughts and advice are welcome. I am considering lipo in a box, spanx and Donna karen waist embrace. thanks so much!