Hi ladies, I just purchased my first barenia and toile bag. I have limited experience with barenia (only a watch band), and no experience with toile. I thought the combination was quite classic, which I like. Any guidance about what to expect and what to be careful of when using the bag? and how to care for it? It's new to me, but several years old, so already has some scratches (which is fine with me, means I can start enjoying the bag as it's already been a bit broken in). Also, I'm wondering will this combination be very heavy for a kelly? thank you in advance.