Maybe colours aren't for you??? Don't worry...I have trouble on the other end of the spectrum! I have no idea how to wear black, white and any brown or red in between. I once bought a RV Courrier and I felt like Santa with his big red sack! I sold that and got a Rouille First. It rubbed me up the wrong way and I was completely grumpy everytime I wore it. Same thing happed with an RV Day. So, I have given up on red's too. I live near the beach now and I also love nature and trees, so I now know I am naturally drawn to greens, blues & yellow sunshine...I love Anthracite, Pine, Vert Gazon, Blueberry, Marine & Jaune...I risked it and bought a Violet and I think it is working for me. It's blue with a hint of red (if you know what I mean...) I don't really see Violet as outside of my usual spectrum.
Ok, how to style colours...I never wear a Bbag with prints. I loathe prints. I go for classic investment pieces that won't date. I love wearing Violet with a canary yellow sundress and white thongs. What about a bright Bbag with jeans and funky T-shirt? Just keep it simple with a hint of punk. I love wearing Jaune with black jeans and a Ramones Tee! Jaune and black are MFEO! Do you have a pair of Converse? If not, you need 2 pairs...black and pink. Wear Violet, Blue's & Greens with your pink Converse and Red's, Jaune & pinks with your black Converse...
Hope this helps...Maybe someone can give me advice on Black & Brown Bbags???