Hey everyone! Thanks for allll your opinions I was thinking last night while trying them on again, that deep down I had always wanted the gold and that is what I was first drawn to. Plus I think the gold stands out more than the silver and if more people have the silver, I want one that not as many have so I can be somewhat different. So I think I'm going with gold. I really do love it and yeah my hair is blondish brownish and it works really well with my coloring. Plus I already own a couple black bags with silver h/w so I really don't need another. Thanks so much for all the sweet remarks