Hi there - I'm new and have spent so much time reading this site in the past few days I think my DH (that's hubby, right? I asked that in another post and noone ever told me) believes I'm having an internet affair. Well, I am, but it's with the metallic Paddingtons! TPF is awesome and I feel like a dork asking this, but when you post a link to an auction, is there any unwritten rule that others respect your "first dibs" on the item, or is it then up for grabs to anyone that sees it due to your inquiry? Either way is fine; I just want to know the guidelines so I don't commit a PF faux pas.