We have this dumb futon sitting in our bedroom that serves no purpose whatsoever and it's ugly. It was DH's couch before we were married almost 7 years ago...he paid like $200 for it. I've asked him if I could get rid of it, and he's kinda like, "we'll see..." but never commits. I don't think it's about sentimental value...it's more about him being a pack rat and thinking one day it will be useful to us! Anyhow, I have an opportunity to have a local charity pick it up while he's at work today or tomorrow, and I think I'm going to do it without asking him! Should I? lol So in general, do YOU live by the 'ask permission' or 'seek forgiveness' :devil: rule???