my parents, mainly my MOM totally loves to brag about my sister, she's the only one in the family thruout that's went to an IVY league school. and my cousin is trying to become a doctor but so far isn't getting very far with applications. so there's a lot of dirt going on in my family about who's kids is doin what and who's got a promotion etc. very very competitive. my mom has been bugging me to either go back to school and get more degrees or find another job with a better "title" because my job just isn't making her happy enough to brag about. nice huh? well sorry if i actually like my job and i like my life the way it is. she sees it as being complacent and lazy. hate asian families.