But do you check his PMs?
Just kidding, of course, but I wouldn't be surprised if there wasn't a lady or two here who finds him intriguing.
Ah no, I was just teasing. But it seems to me that web boards and chatrooms are really fertile grounds for emotional cheating.HAHAHA I laughed out loud reading this.. because it may be true. He has some GREAT odds on this board- 22,000 women to like 1,000 men... errrr (if that.. that is pushing it on the male side)
Are you saying I should snoop more??
I know it exists, it is usually one of the first steps to divorce court!
I know it exists,
that's why some of the rules I made with my Hubby were...
I know alot of you might not agree with me but...
- No girl bestfriend
- No going out one on one with a girl for whatever reason
- No entertaining female friends with their private problems unless they tell it to both of us.
- And same rule I apply to myself...
I do not believe that anyone is immune to temptation not even when you are inlove...
There would always be room for another...
So do you think it's possible to have an emotional affair, like forever? I mean if it does stay at just that - and there is no physical affair - do you think one can carry on with an emotional affair for a really long period of time??? You see movies where a married person loves someone else - they talk on the phone, etc - but never have any physical contact. I know it wouldn't be "right"..........but do you think it's possible?
Omg that's horribleYou guys, what is horrible and sad, is when someone has died and the surviving spouse comes in to plan the funeral and they want to cheapest casket that they can buy and then instruct us that they don't want so and so at the visitation or funeral.
They don't come right out and say, but we know that it must have been an affair that was found out.
We have had to call the police to services a few times over this.
It's as if, they do not want their friends and families (understandably so) to know that their dead spouse had been cheating. I guess they don't want ot be humiliated and think that in death, it's over...but when the "other person" shows up, fireworks fly.
We have even had the "other person" that had been asked to leave the property, come in to try to take some of the flower arrangements, while the family is at the grave service.
The whole thing is heartbreaking for all involved.
Without a doubt.....it exists...
Agree with you too...I totally agree with you. I think there is a fine line that can be crossed very easliy before you are even awared it is happening.
Agree with you too...
I've seen several of my friends, men and women fall for a friend...
usually a female friend in need of support... and most men kinda fall to that "needed trap!"
and women fall for the supportive friend who always understands...
I believe that none of our SO/Dh are perfect...
but when we start looking for what's lacking in our relationship in another person...
instead of making it work together...
its anyone's guess where that relationship is headed...