I had someone buy something from me at a military base overseas. She purchased the item with parcel post. Since the item isn't expensive, I didn't ask for signature confirmation or insurance. It has now been 35 days since I sent the item and she has still not received it. Last week she contacted me about this, so I contacted USPS. They told me that over seas parcel post takes an average of 30-45 days for delivery. I relayed this information to my buyer, who just opened up a paypal dispute because she hasn't received the item. I replied to her that she has to wait 10 more days before USPS will even begin looking for the package. I included the tracking info, etc. My hands are tied...I think. Is there anything else I can do? I dont want to refund her and then 10 days later have her receive the item for free!