Thank you for writing to me, MrsKing. Being in my late forties now, and since my kids are mostly grown, I really had been looking forward to following my dreams of getting back some of my lost youth and beauty and to finally pursue my life goals. This desire had been lingering in me for a while. I had my first child rather young and so I didn't have the freedom to enjoy my youth much. I was always a mom first. Then, after having four children with my childhood sweetheart, he decided that the family life was not for him and deserted us. When I finally got the chance to start "fixing" myself, I felt that I took my time researching for the best. When I thought I found it, I was so happy. I got a facelift, browlift, liposuction and other procedures in Beverly Hills. It was expensive but my thoughts were; the surgeon's in Beverly Hills, he has been in business for over 20 years, he's triple board certified, he's got excellent reviews... he's got to be good! And I suppose he was good for some, according to his reviews. But he certainly wasn't good for me. I was treated horrendously after surgery. My liposuction wounds were left un-dressed. Yes! He left all of them open on my back! I was draining everywhere. My clothes were soaked and I was shaking like crazy because I was freezing. (I went in at 6am and I woke up from surgery in the evening. It was dark!) The doctor was nowhere in sight and the two nurses were standing over me fighting to dress my wet body into my zip-up hoody and sweat pants, so they could hurry and go home. Then, they both picked me up by my arms and carried me to my caretaker's car, which BTW, I had to scream for them to stop before throwing me into the front seat, so that I wouldn't destroy her car upholstery with my blood soaked back. They quickly grabbed the floor mat of the car and threw it on the seat, before throwing me on top of it. That wasn't the end of it but I'll cut it short to say that my complete results from most of the procedures, were terrible. This happened in November, 2012. I was very depressed and became recluse.
Then, I discovered ID hospital and the jaw bone contouring craze. I went back and forth with their consultant online for about six months and even went all the way to Korea to meet Dr. Park face to face. I had a cross bite, under bite, uneven bite, asymmetrical face, long face, wide face, you name it, I had it. He told me that I should do this, this and that and assured me that I would look young and beautiful. I was totally sold. So, then later, I went back to Korea with tons of money and had the surgery. I realized that I had made a mistake immediately after surgery, when I took my side profile picture. Swollen or not, my lower jaw did not look right. It was receding way too much. However, they kept telling me that my surgery was successful and told me to give it time. I am now going on five months. Originally, I had wide cheekbones but they were cut and moved to the front of my face. They look too big and long on my face now. They moved my lower jaw back too much so now I have a receding chin. They tilted my upper jaw forward, making the space between my nose and upper lip too long. They cut too much bone off my jawline and chin, so now, all the extra skin leftover, looks like I have no jawline at all under my ears, and my neck skin sags more. My newly developed double chin skin is bulky and uneven. The corners of my mouth are turned downwards and my jowls make me look like a St. Bernard dog. I look older than I did before surgery. When I contact them, they tell me to wait. First it was 30 days, then 3 months, now it's six months. I'm sure, next will be one or two years. I also had the thread lift and fat graft. The thread lift results are completely non existent and the fat graft has mostly re-absorbed except for some bulky unevenness on my forehead.
Before surgery, I wasn't gorgeous but I had my moments where people have told me that I was beautiful. I was told often that I looked younger than my age. After my botched surgery in Beverly Hills, my face looked the same except I wasn't happy about the visible scars (and non-existent browlift results). But now, after ID, I look older and not at all beautiful. They took my money and completely destroyed me! And judging by their email correspondence, I'm pretty sure they have no intentions of helping me unless I pay more money.
Still, I'm determined to live the life of my dream. I've been researching specialists for facelift, necklift, browlift, smile lift and Rhinoplasty. After my jaw surgery, a nose job is necessary because it is now out of proportion with my face. I had really hoped that Aone was the place that would finally do it for me. I have been going back and forth with the emails but now after reading posts in this forum, I'm scared that they're just another commercialized factory. I can't afford another heartbreak from heartless surgeons. I now just want to look normal but I'm scared that the next one will leave me looking worse.