If someone has one of these lighter colored Meredith bags, can you please tell me how it's holding up? Are you using it often? Would you say this could be an everyday bag or are these light colored bags showing wear and tear early? Also are you finding the flap convenient? Do you find you can reach in and grab cell phone or whatever pretty easily? Does the clasp work fine? I was having a bit of trouble opening and closing in in the store but maybe you just have to get used to it. Thank you.