@jade @elvisfan4life @Chagall As a Puerto Rican American living in Utah, I feel this and I'm ashamed. The way local governments and the public in general are handling this pandemic is disappointing and we should do better. Unfortunately, masks and anti-intellectualism were politicized last year. People are still holding onto that mentality even though double-masking was proven to hinder the spread more than not wearing a mask.
My husband and I are also childfree and in self-imposed isolation due to his asthma. We haven't visited family since last February (when we thought COVID-19 was an isolated incident) or eaten/spent time in an enclosed space anywhere with anyone in over a year. We've only been able to see a few friends during remote camping and hiking trips where we can all keep our distance while being masked up. We went on a Utah national parks road trip last December before the first snow so we could hike everyday and have something to look forward to while still isolating with self-check-in and eating meals inside or out on a trail. Isolation has definitely been hard and frustrating during winter because we don't enjoy camping or hiking in the snow.
Our non-outdoorsy friends have fallen off our radar, but join birthday Zoom calls at least. Yet, I see IG and FB posts of friends and family (in Florida and Puerto Rico) going to brunch, happy hour, dinner indoors, hugging in selfies with people they don't isolate with, and partying together like it's not a risk of spreading the virus. Just because a local government allows restaurants and bars to open doesn't mean people won't catch COVID from eating inside while sharing the same air at a small table, unmasked.
The frustration and sadness affected escalated my GAD so I actively tell myself to hide social media posts, unfollow those people, don't like posts, etc. because other people's selfishness and willful ignorance are unavoidable. Going for runs (when it's not snowing), skincare, reading, watercolour, binging shows, and practicing new recipes have also been sanity-savers.
Thank you for reading and wishing everyone good health, love, and the strength to see this through.