I just got my catalogue and have been drooling over the very few bags in Iron. The sloane is stunning, but recently I have been looking for a more structured bag, and, lo and behold, there's the roma sitting right next to the sloane--more structured than the sloane but still in the soft smooshy nappa umbria that I so love! My only hesitation is whether it is too big for me (my medium campana is just the right size, and I really don't carry enough to fill it up as it is. But, being a BV, I know the roma will get softer over time, so maybe the fact that it is a few inches bigger will not be an issue. So...anyone who has been using a roma tote (ahem, mlbags, ReRe)...what are your thoughts? Is it big and bulky, does it slouch and get less bulky over time? How comfortable is it to wear over the shoulder? Is it easy to access while wearing on the shoulder, or do you have to put it down to get in and out of it? Sorry for the rapid fire questions, but this will be my most expensive bag to date, and I haven't had a chance to try it on in the boutique yet. I am wondering if I should wait to see if it goes on sale at Saks or BV later in the season, but then I may miss out on it if it sells out fast. Dilemma, dilemma!