Hi, I have had a very extreme incident. I made the mistake of trusting someone I had transacted with before on eBay - twice successfully - for expensive items. I won't bore everyone with the details, but we are agreed to trade bags, and I would pay some extra money via paypal. We promised to send each other our bags at the same time. Anyway, she never sent me her bag - but I sent her my bag and paid the extra via paypal. She now has both our bags. I sent her an email demanding the return of my bag and money. She has sent the money back, but not the bag - which is very expensive (about $1600). I can't take this loss, so I plan to sue her. I have no experience of doing this, and it is in a different country. (I am in the UK, and she is in Canada.) I am guessing this will be a very difficult process. I would be extremely grateful if anyone can advise me from experience as to how to do this successfully, and not spend too much on legal fees. Thanks.