Thanks anne I remember reading about how you had to move in like 1 day, brutal. I am definitely getting someone to help with day-day chores. I guess I am anticipating somewhat of a culture shock only because things are so convenient in the US, and one gets a little used to things. Also what with the recalls with exports from China, I am worried but more so for my daughter so I will be buying certain medications, foods, toileteries. Funny thing about you mentionning sheets etc, I have already started buying those just because I was afraid I couldn't find my favourites there.
When we moved to HK (I am sure Shanghai will be a bit different), I remember thinking that the U.S. was so much more convenient. After a bit...I completely changed my mind! I didn't even need to leave my house if I didn't want too!! I ordered groceries online, the dry cleaners picked-up and delivered, the vet made house calls, even McDonald's and KFC delivered!!!! So it will just take some getting used too...but once you get in your groove....you will love it I'm sure!! Try to embrace it all...as your time there will be short...it will be a great move for your family...it really made my DH and I closer...as we only had each other to depend on!!!