ok, so not long ago my mom and dad got me a great small chelsea outlet edition hobo in pebbled leather. even when i adjust the strap to the max, it just sits over my winter coat. is this gonna look stupid? i mean, do u need a certain amount of drop to avoid ue bag looking silly? i dont have a winter black bag that i really like w a long strap. m finding coach does a lot of short straps lately.