I think if ur dissatisfied with the placement u currently have, u should look at some other BVs that u can buy and exchange it with the one u currently have. And for Tokidoki bags, all that matter is the placement u like on the bag. Other people said that the bag looks good but its not for u, u r just not feeling it...if u know what i mean.
Dont return it first until u get a better one? I think ur bf may not know even if u exchange the one he gave u.
Well if u feel really bad about it...one thing that should make u better is he bought the bag from macys.com. He didnt personally handpicked the bag for u. Maybe he did choose the print and the style. But if u dont like it, u may end up not using it and waste his $$$, just like what starryxangel said.
My bf handpicked an amore zucca for me (i told him the placement i want). He helped me to look for it for 3 weeks (since he's working, he can only go on weekends). Finally he found 1. Its ok for me but not that perfect...but i dont have the heart to tell him and return/exchange it since he know the placement.