I've checked out the picture threads here including BVs in action and have noticed how beautiful the Venetas look on you ladies. So I've set my sights on the medium one. Whenever I look at pictures of the bag on the websites selling BV, the bag looks small but the measurement says otherwise (16" wide). Most of the bags I own are around 12" wide or less. But I'm thinking the BV slouches and is not stiff. So I just need some honest opinions, do you think I should take the plunge with the medium Veneta? BTW, I'm 4'11" and 96 lbs. Any petite gals here who have the Veneta? Or anyone seen petite gals carrying the medium Veneta? TIA~