pursemama said:You need to ask yourself, why would I want to be friends with someone who has no moral values or more importantly has no respect for me? To be his friend it should be unconditional and equal.
Up until our last (and probably last ever) conversation, he wasn't so open in his disregard for my opinions/wants/needs/whatevers.
Your comments + advice actually helped me realise what a total jerk he was and still is. I'd even managed to forget the incident, or should I say non-incident when my mother died, where he didn't even offer condoleances.
Thanks for your advice, kind words, boots up the a$$ (lookin' at you, pursemama ) which I needed. I feel better now.