Hello gals. I've been having so much trouble with this.... Its been about 8 months into our relationship... in the beginning like any relationship it was doing really well. I told him I didn't like the fact that he smoked cigarettes and he quit for me. It was going well but as time went by I realized he would take the occasional cigarette.. and 1 turned into 3 and now he does it whenever he wants infront of me. and wehnever his friends are back from school all they do is smoke pot and cigarettes practically everyday, which also really bothers me... So I get annoyed sometimes and turns into a huge fight... am i being unreasonable? I dont want to feel like this or be such a burden, but I realy can't help it. Any advice ladies.. im in dire need of one we're taking a break as of right now..