I just purchased a Rick Owens leather jacket for a great price of 315.55. The seller does not take paypal, but takes personal checks, money orders or payments through auctionpayments.com I tried paying that way with my credit card, but it was denied with no explanantion due to privacy laws. Which to me means it was something to do with the seller . I e mailed her and she said it sometimes happens with transactions over 300.00 and I can deposit the money in her account as she banks with Bank of America and there is a branch in my area. i deposited a check today, which should clear in a day. But the problem is that I emailed her 3 times today, and she has not responded. Also, I went to her contact info on E bay and the telephone # listed is disconnected. Now I am alittle worried, and am thinking of taking the money from my checking account so the check cannot clear and will bounce. i really hate to do that as there will be insufficient fund fees involved for both me and for her, but I am just uncomfortable with how this transaction is progressing. I really want this jacket, but I do not want to be swindled out of 315.00. Am I being overly cautious? Thanks