Sorry this is a bit long! Ok, so I was watching a bag on eBay. It didn't sell, so I sent the seller a message asking if she would sell it slightly below the asking price. Up to her if she wanted to relist through eBay or go directly through paypal. Yes, I know it isn't the best to go outside eBay. Anyway, so she counter-offers and with shipping of $15. I agree. She wants to invoice me through paypal. Then she says that it will be $6 or so more for her fees for sending me an invoice and shipping via paypal. Not true and I know that; tell her so but agree anyway. So today, I get a shipping notification and it shows Parcel post. Are you kidding me?! Email her asking if she can ship Priority. She states that it is more and will be another $6. In the original auction she listed Priority! I email her back to let her know that and that I have already covered her fees which I wouldn't have through ebay. I feel like I am being nickle and dimed and almost feel like saying "forget it!" I mean, I still got an ok deal but is it worth the hassle? Oh, and I paid with my credit card so I am not too worried is something happens, and she has good feedback. So, am I being difficult or is this as ridiculous as it seems to me TIA! ETA: She just agreed to ship Priority.