On a similar note, can someone explain to me why it's only Asian that is always used with fetishism. It seems to me that "Asian fetish" is thrown around left and right but never "White fetish," "Black fetish," etc. Because of this, sometimes I feel that if I were in an interracial relationship (being an Asian girl), our relationship would be seen as illegitimate because the guy just has an Asian fetish and I am just the flavor of the month.
i dont think you´re shallow at all...its not like you refuse to have anything in common - work, socialize, be around white or black men or any other races. If only Asian men turn you on, im happy for you - you found something that you like ! i dont understand what is shallow in it - should you force yourself to be attracted to other races to seem more tolerant? dont worry about it, its not like we choose who we are attracted to.