my boyfriend of five years and i broke up the day before valentine's day and i've been trying to deal with it alone but it's just really hard and i was hoping u ladies could maybe make me feel better........it makes me soso sad to hear people talk about their valentine's days and the gifts they received
i just felt like we were at different places in our lives......i'm a young law student and surrounded by people that are older/more mature than i am whereas my boyfriend is still in college and plays computer games all day (and night).......he treats me like a princess when we're together, but he treats me like crap on the 6/7 days of the week that we're not (would be mean to me/ignore me)......i guess our biggest issue was just that he would completely ignore me because of his games.....it'd be christmas and he'd be ignoring me because he's playing his games......
i know it doesn't seem like that big a deal but just arguing over it day after day gets to u.......i wonder if i did the right thing and if i should look at how he treats me when we're together but i don't know.....he says i'm too needy/selfish but i feel like i deserve somebody who talks to me because he wants to and not because he feels obligated and who treats me like a princess all the time......
i guess my biggest problem now is just i've been with this guy since i was 16 and i dont' know how to do anything alone.........there're so many things (computer-wise) that i don't know how to do without him......and just the loneliness is driving me crazy.....this is the first time i've been without a boyfriend since my early teenage years and i feel myself looking around like crazy for someone to fill the void......
i just felt like we were at different places in our lives......i'm a young law student and surrounded by people that are older/more mature than i am whereas my boyfriend is still in college and plays computer games all day (and night).......he treats me like a princess when we're together, but he treats me like crap on the 6/7 days of the week that we're not (would be mean to me/ignore me)......i guess our biggest issue was just that he would completely ignore me because of his games.....it'd be christmas and he'd be ignoring me because he's playing his games......
i know it doesn't seem like that big a deal but just arguing over it day after day gets to u.......i wonder if i did the right thing and if i should look at how he treats me when we're together but i don't know.....he says i'm too needy/selfish but i feel like i deserve somebody who talks to me because he wants to and not because he feels obligated and who treats me like a princess all the time......
i guess my biggest problem now is just i've been with this guy since i was 16 and i dont' know how to do anything alone.........there're so many things (computer-wise) that i don't know how to do without him......and just the loneliness is driving me crazy.....this is the first time i've been without a boyfriend since my early teenage years and i feel myself looking around like crazy for someone to fill the void......