Hello All-- I am SERIOUSLY interested in purchasing this handbag. http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=10344&category_id=1257 Here is what i need to ask since the DC area is not carrying it-- how big is this? Is it slim enough not to be too bulky? When you put your things in it it might slim down a bit-- i just prefer medium size handbags. How heavy is it? I recently purchased the Large Bleeker Flap and the hardware weighed the bag down. Please help?! I've returned about 2-3 purses this season because of these two reasons-- i'd love for this one to work out. ps. what about the color-- toffee or ink?