Unethical???? It's just a shop after all and you're being nice to the people you love - what on earth can be wrong with buying them gifts? Honesty is always the best policy.
You're too cute, GF!^ I think they're a little stricter (is that even a word?) in SG. By the way, I am SO used to saying SQ for Singapore....too many years in the airline indusrty...LOL!!
If it's not a surprise gift, then bringing her to the store would work.I was thinking about this all afternoon, and imagined what I would do, if I were to order a Birkin for my Mom. I would certainly take her to the store, and let her pick the colour and leather she wants. That would leave no room for doubts.
For regular customers, SAs are more willing to extend their service to help their relatives. But make no mistake about it; they are only willing to help because of YOUR patronage. There is no free lunch, KWIM?