I have decided to take the leap into the H pool with a gold Kelly. However, I won't have the chance to see the bag before I choose it. I can exchange it if I don't like it, but I would rather get it right the first time. So, my questions are: (1) Which of these leathers would you recommend: swift, epsom, veau grain lisse or togo? (2) Is a 32 a lot different than a 35 and is it more important to pick the leather you prefer versus the size? (3) Do you like gold or palladium hardware on a gold bag? Any help would be greatly appreciated.