I just opened my box from AR and saw and felt the Purse style for the first time. I have a day and it is really comfortable to wear - crazy about it. I thot for my second Bbag, I would get a different style - something like the classic bbag look. Since I knew I would wear it over my shoulder, I ruled out the city and first. From what the SA said and from what I had read in this forum, it seemed the right choice. It is a bit snug on my shoulders. It actually feels a little better with stuff in it since it pulls down with the weight. I was so set to love this bag, like I love my other, and I am having second thoughts. The leather is perfect - just the right amount of smooth and distress for me. For those of you experienced bbagers, do the handles stretch with wear? Enought to make a difference? So really the question is the style. Help?