Hi Ladies, I have recently become obsessed with the stam. I even went so far as to make a bad eBay decision regarding the stam, but thats another thread. . .sigh. . . So here is my dilemma , I'm a tad intimidated by the stam's size. Sometimes when I see them on people/models/mannequins, they look GIGANTIC! Now I'm sort of considering the small stam or even the quilted mayfair. I really like the frame aspect of the stam/little stam. Has anyone felt torn like this. I like big bags, but don't want to look silly(I'm 5.7, 122lbs).:s Any opinions from those who tote the aforementioned bags? I don't own an MJ yet so when I finally decide it will be my first. Thanks!